If you and your friend are walking down the road and you both see 10 dollars of your friend picks it up and offers you 5 dollars, Is that fair ?

If he offered you 3 dollars, instead ... how would you feel?

Fairness and the way people talk about it is mostly bias. We talk about wanting life to be fair but the variables that make up your life are so vast that what you see as unfair may be exactly what you deserved.



Just think about it ... actually don't, it might hurt to think about.

The variables of life are so vast that what you did or are doing could have a massive effect on someones life good or bad in the future and you would never know.

Theres a way of thinking called Karma, you've heard the saying "what goes around comes around" right well thats Karma in this way of thinking. Its different from the Hindus way of thinking of Karma.


But what you do is proportionate to what is going to be done for you. Every action has a equal and opposite reaction. You give a man 20 dollars you find 5 dollars 4 times in a week, now that just an example but what im getting at is thats a straight forward way of thinking about it now think about 20 things that happened to you good or bad or 20 things you did that happened and thing about the consequences of those things... Dont hurt yourself now...



Now all these things going on and then in the middle of what your doing you choose to take one of those things out and call it unfair. The man in front of you decides to cut you off the police is right there can see it an does nothing but you think if you did that you would be pulled over that second.

What you don't know is that, that man just got a call that he needs to get home now because his son is having his 30th seizure and he left for food for 3 minutes and now he has to rush home because the nanny doesn't know what to do.

What I want you to understand reader is that life is both fair and unfair your just unaware of the amount of things going on.

Your so unaware that some of you just decide that something is unfair, without even thinking about what could possibly be going on.


So heres what i want you to do. When you see something you think is unfair, just think hmmm maybe someone is having a bad day.

Thanks in advance

Adam
Peace